God's Plan, His Sense of Humor and My 3 Kids

I'm constantly in awe of God's Plan and the work he is doing in my life and the lives of those around me. This will be a long post, but the ending is so worth it!

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11


8 Years ago this month, I became a Mother. (or a Bonus Mom or a 2nd Mom, and possibly my favorite, His Kelly Jo) Hayden was 1 1/2 when Sam and I got married. Shortly before I met Sam, I prayed that God would send me a man that would understand and willingly accept some health issues I had and would have in the future that may make it difficult for me to conceive. In walks Sam and this 10 month old miracle of a boy that has not stopped amazing me since the day I met him. Watching Hayden grow into a Christ-loving, Christ-Like young man will forever be one of the greatest joys of my life. About 4 years ago, the three of us went to the pool one afternoon. It started raining so we ran home. The boys stayed outside and had a blast. (Side Note...I had been struggling around this time with wanting more children and how I was going to have them.) It was at this moment I realized God sent me EXACTLY what I asked for with these two.  I was at complete peace with our little family and would be happy with my blessings if we stayed a family of 3...Plus Priscilla!

Fast forward to January of 2010. My Doctor had serious reservations about me being able to carry a child to term, but agreed that I was healthy enough to try! We tried, and prayed, and we tried, and we got tested and prayed, and had blood work and got poked and prayed and tried some more for 14 months. My Doctor discovered I don't ovulate every month and it's hit or miss when I do, so we'd just have to keep trying. We did and Precious Alex was born in November of 2011. What a gift!

In April of this year, Sam and I had a conversation about extending our family. Our thought process and conversation went something like this:
Sam "Well, let's get of birth control now, knowing you probably won't get pregnant easily and in 8 or 10 months, we'll get focused and try"
Me: "Sounds Good"
Me, two weeks later: "I got Pizza for dinner, and got us a dessert. I didn't want it, but the Baby did!"
Sam points to Alex: "That Baby?"
Me: "No, New Baby"
Sam: Gives me a high five

So, I know God has a plan, but I've recently realized he has a sense of humor too! Baby Riden #3 will be here around January 28th. This little miracle is growing fast, is healthy and doing great! Two babies in 14 months! I'm taking baby-sitting applications now! :)

Update Overhaul

It's been too long! I'll try to remember everything that's happened since the last time I posted in May!

My Mom, Grandma and Grandpa came to visit for Mother's Day. It was a short visit, but so sweet!

After they left, our house turned into Operation Haiti. Sam and Hayden left for Haiti June 1. I had the job of making sure they had supplies, clothes, and goodies. Sam had to get several immunizations and perscriptions so he was safe and stayed healthy during his travel. Catherine, Hayden's Mom had the hardest job of getting Hayden's Passport, his immunizations and signing and getting countless permission slips notarized so Hayden could travel with only one parent out of the country. (As well as coming to peace about Hayden traveling out of the country with Sam to serve. I'm so grateful for her! She's AH-mazing!) The safety measures had to be taken, and I understand them, but Jeezo Fellas! You'd think they were going to be gone a year, not 8 days!

They both truly have a heart for the Haitians. I'm so blessed by these two!

While they were gone, I realized how hard it is to be a single parent. Wednesday, June 6th, I woke Alex up from a 3 hour nap and he was on FIRE! His temp was 101.8. (I realize that's not high for an infant, but it was his first fever and I freaked) I called the after hours clinic and one of my best friends Kelsey and got the advice I needed to get us through the night! Waking up every four hours to give your sweet baby medicine, and then checking on him countless times will seriously wear you out! His fever was down until Thursday evening, so I decided to take him to the Dr. Friday morning. Alex had his first ear infection, on top of cutting TWO teeth Thursday night! What a week. I was so happy when Sam came home, for so many reasons!

The next two weeks brought 4 softball games for Sam's CHURCH LEAGUE team. I love this league, and we have a great time, but there might be a chance, just maybe, that Sam and his friend Brad can take it to the next level with their intensity. Thankfully, I have my sweet Kate to tread through the Church League waters with me! They won the championship, for the first time. That night, after the game, this was Kate's facebook post:

"Brad's church league softball team just won the championship! Woohoo! This is what LeBron's wife must feel like."

I completely agree. Sam walked in and was on the phone talking to one of his team mates about the Fall league line up. Seriously.

Alex and I flew to Tampa June 30-July 4th to visit with my mom's side of the family. A-Man did GREAT on the plane (all 4 of them!) I was supper anxious, but he was awesome. Not awesome was the 2 teeth he cut while we were there! (Teeth count to date: 5!) It was Sunday night and he screamed for about 45 minutes. I was not anyones favorite person that night for allowing Alex to self-soothe!! After that small hicup, we had a fantastic time. Alex loved being in and eating the sand! Unfortunately, my phone didn't make it through the trip, so I have very few pictures right now. I'll post some more later, but here's what we have!

Next week Sam and I are going to Philadelphia for work, my Mom is coming to keep Alex. Hopefully we'll see Hayden the last week in July before he starts his NEW School in August! We've been blessed with a fortunate and busy summer, but I'm ready for the downtime and cooler weather that the fall will bring!

Who's that Baby?

I think Alex looks like Sam and Hayden...what do you think?

SAM

KELLY JO

HAYDEN

HAYDEN

ALEX

5 Months!

What a wild 5 Months!

I tell people God intends for us to have more children because Alex is SUCH a good baby! We're truly blessed! He sleeps from 8:30-7:30 and takes two naps and eats 3 times a day. He plays and rolls and semi-crawls. We don't have a crawler yet, but we do have a mobile baby! Last night I was in his room sorting his clothes (Pulling out the 6-9 month stuff!) and he scooted about 3 feet towards me then pulled himself up into my lap! Here are his 5 month pictures.

He usually goes back down after his 7:30 bottle for an hour or so. He was awake but playing in his crib this morning when his monitor started beeping in our room. I went in his room and he had pulled the monitor from the top of the crib rail and this is what I found!

Guess it's time to lower the crib mattress!

What's for Dinner?

Sam and I have a running joke that he eats the best when Hayden is here...sometimes that's the only time during the month/6 weeks that he eats home cooked meals!

In an effort to remedy this, I decided to start Once-a-Month Cooking! (Also, I HATE to cook in the summer time!) With OAM cooking, I can pick up fresh ingredients for sides and snackes/staples at the grocery, and stop randomly going and buying things we don't need!

I started planning Wedensday morning when the new Kroger ad. came out. I had a list of meals I wanted to cook and tailored it slightly based on the sales. I also used every coupon I could find, since I most likely won't buy some of the items again for a month or more. We had two freezers full when I started, so I had to be creative! We had lots of Free Range Chicken, Deer and Duck Smoked Sausage and Ground Deer Meat from last season, so that helps. (We still have lots of quail and bacon wrapped dove if anyone is interested!)

I boiled and shredded 2 whole chickens +  4 Chicken breasts on Wednesday. This was a time saver because I only have 2 large stock pots and needed them for several other dishes.

I shopped on Friday and put the rub on the pork shoulder to sit overnight. Here's what a month worth of meals looks like in our house! (I used everything with the exception of a few ingredients that I've not made anything with yet. )

Here's the list of Recipes I compiled from Pinterest, Google and Other Blogs. I don't want to steal anyones ideas, these are NOT my recipes! If you'd like any of them, please let me know. I'll try and go back and add links in later. Each of these were doubled, so they make at least two meals for the two of us, most of them will make more.

Lasagna Chili

Chicken and Black Bean Chili

Chicken Spaghetti

Pulled Pork BBQ

Crockpot BBQ Chicken

Baked Ziti

Cheddar and Cracker Coated Chicken

Stuffed Peppers

Chicken Tortellini Casserole

Beef Stroganoff

Olive Garden's Minestrone Soup - These are in smaller ziploc bags for lunches/single meals

Macaroni and Cheese - These are in smaller ziploc bags for lunches/single meals

Breakfast Burritos (24 Burritos)

Breakfast Muffins

Sam went to Memphis Saturday to visit his friend Brian, so I knew it's be a great time for the A-Man and I to have a work day! We started about 9 running a few errands, including one to Lowe's to pick up some things for our Patio Renovation...more on that later!

With Alex in his johnny jump up, I got started around 10:45. I started with the Chicken Spaghetti and Lasagna Chili and just progressed. I didn't clean as I went unless it was neccessary because I ran out of pot/spoons/bowls, etc. Here's a photo mid-way through. I'm a good cook, just not a clean one!Don't Judge!

I cooked until about 7:30, feeding an playing with the baby in between. It was work! But at 8 last night when Sam got home, It felt food to see all the progress I hadn't taken time to look at all day! I froze everything I could flat in gallon ziploc bags. The baked Ziti, Chicken Spaghetti and Chicken Tortellini Casseroles were in pans. I laid plastic wrap in the pans first, then flash froze them. I took them out, wrapped in foil and put them in ziploc bags with labels. When we cook those, I'll just unwrap them and pop them back in the pans! This is what the freezer looked like at about 5. I can't tell you how happy I am to be done for the month! To top it off our sweet neighbors were smoking food all day long, and they called us to comeover about 8:30 last night and gave us a smoked pork shoulder, which we ate for dinner. It was delicious! Alex was some kind of trooper! He played in his johnny jump up or his other bouncy seat in the kitchen when he was awake.

I'll post his 5 Month pictures and what I found this morning when I went to get him up later! We've got to get ready for church!

What a Week!

This week was GREAT!

Saturday morning Alex, Hayden and I went to Another Broken Egg Cafe for
breakfast to let Sam rest. They didn't get home until 2 am Saturday morning!

We came home and went down to the reservoir to fish. Hayden caught a 4 lb. Catfish! And, Priscilla chased a Canadian goose, and almost ended up in the water! Alex and I played on the quilt for awhile, then walked home and let the boys finish up. We had crock pot Pork Roast for dinner. It was fantastic! I took the roast, 1 pack of Ranch dressing, 1 can of Cream of Chicken Soup and one can of Water and let the crock work it's magic! (I served it over rice. The recipe is on my Pinterest!)

Sunday was Alex's first trip to the Nursery. They said he was great and wanted him back! So far, he's not gotten sick...yet! The afternoon brought more fishing for Sam and Hayden. They went to a friends house and caught several bass. They cleaned the fish Sunday night and we fried them up Monday. Hayden was super excited about eating something he just caught!

Monday we started our Landscaping renovations...its great to have a strong child willing to help! :) (And cheap labor too! I paid him $.50 per plant and he went to work!) We got 12 shrubs in the ground before the flood gates opened and we got a horrible storm! The front yard is starting to look really good. I'll post pictures soon!

Tuesday afternoon Hayden went Turkey hunting for the first time! They didn't see anything, but he perfected his turkey call.

Wednesday we prepared for The Garners visit. Hayden's mom Catherine, his brothers Gavin (4) and Lawton (2) and Sister London (6) came over for the first time. They all had so much fun. It was great for the kids to see where Hayden stayed and what he did while he's here. He had to adjust to sharing his space here! Thursday we took all the kids to get their pictures made during Alex's 4 month session. I cannot wait to see the photos, Amy (Amy Johnson Photography) is so patient and kind, I highly recommend her for kid's and family pictures!

Thursday afternoon, Sam took Hayden, London and Gavin to the pool, and sent Catherine and I to get our nails done! (Em kept Alex and Lawton) He's a keeper for sure! They were all worn out and took naps while I got dinner ready. Teresia, Greg and Mamo came over for dinner Thursday night and the kids had movie night.

Friday they left for home and we got the house in order and started stripping beds/doing laundry. This weekend We were able to visit with our great friends Kimberly and Lex! It's always great to see them.

Church this morning was great, Pastor Rob did a fantastic job as always, feeding us the truth. We went to Sam's aunt Liz's this afternoon for too much food and a great family visit. The weather has been so good this weekend we've spent alot of time outside.

Here are some recent random shots. Alex loves his jumpy. The best part about it is the mirror, which is also his favorite snack!

And last, but not least, mother Priscilla! She used to lay in front of Hayden's door if Sam wasn't home and he in his room sleeping. With both boys here, she got confused about where to lay, so she lays on the rug in the living room so she can look at the hallway to both their rooms!

Schedules

Life on a schedule is good...really good! And Necessary! Good and Necessary!

This week? Not so much! Since Alex started sleeping from 8ish -6 last Thursday night, I figured to try my luck and start transitioning baby into 3 feedings a day. I know...I'm a horrible mom right? I don't think so, and when I tell you how much he eats, you might not either! :)

Monday night we went to eat and celebrate Mamo (Sam's Grandmother) 82nd birthday at Logan's. I was talking through how to change schedules to Sam and his solution was to give Alex a small bottle at 6, his normal dinner time, and then feed him his full meal at 7:30, his new dinner time. This worked great! He slept well...until 5 am. He rolled over and started yelling. Not crying or fussing, but full on yelling. This is our new normal. A baby who yells. I turned him back over and we both survived until 7. He laid back down until 8 and started yelling again! He took a great morning nap and I was able to make his first homemade baby food. I made over 100 servings of food
in 4 hours...I'm just sayin! More on that later.

I woke him up at 1:00 for his lunch, which he ate in less than 30 minutes. Afternoon brought a short nap and he was down for the night at 8. Success! Not so much.

At one in the morning, he rolled himself over and started yelling again. I really thought he may wake up the neighbors, it was that loud. He slept until 7 and day two of our new schedule started. Aparently Wednesday is opposite day. His morning nap only lasted about 45 minutes, but that was long enough for me to bag all of his new food and organize the freezer for the new addition. He had a good afternoon nap and slept really well Wednesday night. He didn't sleep good for Emily Thursday morning, but took a good afternoon nap and I thought he went to sleep right after I put him down at 8.

I was outside bringing everything back into the garage after it was sealed today. When I was finished and came inside, I went to give him a little love and this is what I found. I'll tell myself that he stayed asleep after he rolled over, but given the decimals our house has operated on the past two days, that's unlikely. He most likely yelled himlf to sleep!

On to the food...at 15lbs 10 oz., Alex isnt starving. Trust me, I'm not neclecting him!
7:30 am- 8oz. Bottle with 2 T. Rice cereal
1:00 pm - 3T. Rice Cereal, 3 T. Vegetables, 3 T. Fruit, 1T. Formula and 1/2 banana mixed together and microwaved. After he eats, he takes a 6-8oz. Bottle.
7:00 pm - Repeat 1:00 Feeding.

This morning we had his 4 month check up and his first set of shots. He's developing great and the doctor was so pleased! He's in the 70th percentile for weight and height and 50th percentile for head circumference. He dr. couldn't believe how much he ate, and that I didn't give him a bottle more than 3 times per day or any 'small meals', but she couldn't have been happer with him. She's been so supportive of our 'Alternative to Modern Parenting' practices! (Our method doesn't work for everyone, but it's worked for 20 children I know, 9 I've met and know personally, not including Alex!)
The shots were traumatic momentarily, but he calmed down when I picked him up and stayed calm in the car on the way home. He's sleeping now!

Sam's gone to get Hayden, he has Karate practice at 6:00 which Sam should arrive just in time for! He'll be here until Friday. There's lots of boy activities in the works!